A person can only have a smooth life and a prosperous future if they maintain the right mindset.

01

Treat yourself with neither arrogance nor discouragement.

The ancients said, "Do not rejoice in material things, do not grieve for oneself, do not worry for others, do not delight in oneself; this is the demeanor of a gentleman."

When someone achieves some success or gains some advantages, they tend to develop a strong sense of superiority; similarly, when criticized, they may become infinitely self-deprecating and constantly doubt themselves.

We need not be discouraged by the discordant voices from the outside world, and of course, we should not be proud because of our achievements.

Neither belittle yourself nor be arrogant; with a level-headed perspective and attitude towards yourself, the scenery before your eyes will expand.

02

Treat others without envy or admiration.

In this lifetime, one will inevitably cross paths with various individuals.

Treat others without jealousy or greed; a normal heart is enough.

Instead of constantly chasing after others' achievements, it is better to enjoy what you have at the moment and maintain a peaceful state of mind at all times.

Adjust your mindset, strive diligently, and live with the vitality of your own life.

03

Treat the past without regret or attachment.

Obsessing over past scenery will lead to the loss of courage to move forward.

The more you dwell on past mistakes, the more chaotic your mind becomes, and the more cluttered your thoughts become.

Everyone's past will have regrets and unfulfilled desires; the key is with what mindset one faces them.

Learning to let go of the past is the key to moving forward fearlessly.

May we both approach ourselves, others, and the past with a clear and open attitude, and maintain a positive mindset every day!

Source: Reading with Style

Editor: Wu Beibei

Editor: Song Fangcan

People with truly high emotional intelligence would never do this. Night Reading.

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When the leader says "Thank you for your hard work," people with high emotional intelligence respond like this. Night reading.