May you take fewer detours and have a smooth and clear life ahead.

One who has not experienced adversity cannot understand its difficulty; only through firsthand experience can one truly comprehend the underlying truth.

On the journey of life, these three lessons are best understood as early as possible.

No real empathy

A writer once wrote: "The snow that falls in a person's life, we cannot see it all. Everyone spends their own life, alone, through the winter."

In this intricate and multifaceted world, each individual is unique, with diverse experiences and varied emotions.

Even the closest friends or family members cannot fully understand every subtle fluctuation in your heart.

There is no true empathy in this world, life is your own, there is no need to explain to others, nor to seek understanding for your grievances.

The greatest support one can rely on is oneself; instead of hoping for others, it is better to strengthen oneself.

Life needs a little blunt emotion

In this fast-paced society, we are often troubled by various trivial matters and emotions.

Moderate insensitivity can help us better cope with the challenges of life.

The power of insensitivity tells us: don't pay too much attention to others' subjective evaluations, as long as your heart is upright.

Do not be trapped in an inescapable emotional state due to past failures and embarrassments.

Forget the past, strive forward, and moving forward calmly is the most important.

A bit more insensitivity can reduce mental consumption.

Be a bit dull in character, and your heart will find peace in every situation.

choice is very important

At certain critical moments in life, choices are often decisive.

Choice is not about following the crowd blindly or drifting with the tide; it is based on profound self-awareness and growth.

Only by clearly recognizing one's strengths, interests, and values can one make the most suitable decision for oneself.

Choosing is also a process of continuous trial and error, constantly adjusting.

Every choice is a deepening of self-awareness and an important opportunity for personal growth.

Making the right choices in life is the best shortcut.

Life is a continuous process of awakening.

Gradually understanding, constantly updating oneself, can perfect oneself, surpass oneself, and then become a better person.

May you take fewer detours and have a smooth and clear life ahead.

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