Not letting oneself down is a form of success. Night reading.
Let go of the grievances in your heart to truly untie the knots.
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The more outstanding people you encounter in life, the more fortunate it is.
If a person looks with appreciation, they will learn more strengths and virtues from others. If they look with jealousy, they will become narrow-minded and selfish.
The blooming of a single flower does not constitute a true spring.
In this world, every flower has its own beauty, and every person has their own goodness.
The appreciative heart is adorned with morning glow, dew, and perennially blooming flowers; the indifferent one freezes the heart, dries up the seas, and leaves the mountains barren.
Many moments, when we learn to appreciate the strengths of others, not only can we bring about a sense of beauty within ourselves, but also shine a positive light on those around us.
When you sincerely bless and appreciate others with an inclusive heart, you are also being blessed and appreciated by others.
What is in one's heart is reflected in one's eyes. If there is sunshine in the heart, the eyes will not see the mud.
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When a person desires more, they often feel they lack even more.
Because the material things a person truly needs are very few. But the void within a person's heart is difficult to fill.
We always struggle to distinguish between what we truly need and what we truly want.
Everyone wants to live a better life, but a good life does not equate to having more. Many times, we mistakenly believe that the more we possess, the smoother our lives will be, and the stronger we are compared to others, the happier we will be.
Unaware, a tree only needs a little sunlight to live abundantly and beautifully.
Having many houses is not as good as having a peaceful sleep. Having many delicacies is not as good as having a healthy body. Having much money is not as good as having genuine peace and health.
The richer a person's spirit, the more they can find true satisfaction and happiness in a simple life.
03
许多时刻,我们在跟别人较劲的同时,又何尝不是在跟自己较劲。
慢慢地你会发现,没有人真的跟你过不去,除非你跟自己过不去。
放下心中的包袱,才能让自己活得从容自在。
这世上,并没有十全十美的人生。
许多时刻,我们总是受困于他人的非议。但你要明白,生活的主角是你,他人只是看客。
你可以接受别人的旁观,但无需接受他人的指摘。
努力去做你能做到的,努力改变你可以改变的 ,努力争取你能争取的。
人的一生能够做到不辜负自己,或许就是最大的成功和胜利。
有时,我们宽恕他人,是为了善待自己。
当一个人把心里填满了怨恨的种子,就很难开出幸福的花朵。
唯有当你放下心中的愁怨,才能真正解开心结。
Source: Warm Woman (:-))
Author: Li Siyuan
Editor: Wu Beibei
Adjust your mindset, and every moment of life is a beautiful scene. Night reading.
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